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Choosing a Realtor? Be as Picky as You Are With Your Avocados!

Think about it. How much time do you spend at the grocery store inspecting avocados? You pick one up, give it a gentle squeeze, put it back, grab another, and repeat until you find just the right one.

Hands choosing a ripe avocado at a sunny California farmers market
Originally published on Renee’s previous website. Local Orange County photography.

WHAT TO KNOW

  1. Look for experience that matches your situation, not just years in the business.
  2. Responsive communication and skilled negotiation shape the whole transaction.
  3. The listing agent does not automatically represent the buyer — know who your agent works for.

Now, here's a question: Are you putting that same level of thought into choosing your Realtor?

Buying or selling a home is one of the biggest financial decisions you'll ever make, yet many people choose an agent simply because they saw their sign in the neighborhood, met them at an open house, or got a recommendation from a friend.

Those are perfectly good places to start, but they shouldn't be the only reasons you hire someone.

Finding the right Realtor takes a little more than a quick squeeze test!

1. Experience Matters, But So Does the Right Experience

Not all real estate transactions are the same.

A first-time homebuyer has different needs than someone selling a longtime family home. A homeowner downsizing for retirement may have completely different priorities than a growing family looking for more space.

Ask potential agents about their experience with your type of transaction and the neighborhoods you're interested in.

A knowledgeable Realtor should understand local market conditions, recognize potential challenges, and know how to guide you through the process.

And don't be afraid to ask questions! A good agent should welcome them.

2. Communication Can Make or Break the Experience

Ever worked with someone who takes forever to return a phone call or leaves you wondering what's happening?

Now imagine that happening while you're trying to buy or sell a house!

Real estate transactions involve deadlines, important decisions, and plenty of moving parts. You need someone who communicates clearly, keeps you informed, and is available when it matters.

Before hiring an agent, ask how they prefer to communicate, how often you can expect updates, and who you'll be working with throughout the transaction.

You don't need someone who answers the phone at 2 a.m. You need someone you can count on.

3. A Good Negotiator Does More Than Talk About Price

Negotiation is one of the most valuable skills a Realtor brings to the table.

But effective negotiation isn't simply about getting a buyer the lowest price or a seller the highest offer.

It's about understanding the market, evaluating the terms of an offer, anticipating potential obstacles, and knowing when to push and when to compromise.

Sometimes the strongest offer isn't the one with the highest price. Financing, contingencies, timelines, and other terms can make a significant difference.

Ask prospective agents how they approach negotiations and handle unexpected challenges.

You want someone who can advocate for your interests while keeping the bigger picture in mind.

4. Understand Who Your Agent Represents

Here's something many buyers and sellers don't realize: The agent whose name appears on a listing sign isn't automatically the right person to represent you.

Real estate agency relationships can vary, and it's important to understand who represents whom before moving forward.

For example, dual agency occurs when the same brokerage represents both the buyer and seller in a transaction. In California, this arrangement requires disclosure and consent, and there are limitations on how a dual agent can advocate for either party.

If you're buying a home, you'll also want to understand your written buyer representation agreement, including the services provided, the length of the agreement, and how your agent will be compensated.

Real estate commissions are negotiable, so don't hesitate to ask questions about fees and representation.

The bottom line? Know who is representing your interests and what you're agreeing to before signing anything.

5. Trust Your Instincts

Credentials and experience are important, but so is finding someone you genuinely feel comfortable working with.

Does the agent listen to your concerns? Do they answer your questions honestly? Are they interested in understanding your goals, or do they seem more focused on getting you to sign a contract?

Buying or selling a home can be emotional, exciting, and occasionally stressful. Having someone you trust makes a world of difference.

You should never feel pressured into making a decision you're uncomfortable with.

And remember, the agent who's right for your neighbor, coworker, or best friend might not be the right one for you.

That's perfectly okay!

Renee's Advice

After more than two decades in real estate, one thing I've learned is that a successful transaction starts with a good relationship.

You don't need a Realtor who tells you everything you want to hear. You need someone who will be honest with you, explain your options, advocate for your interests, and help you make informed decisions.

My advice? Interview a few agents before making your choice. Ask questions, pay attention to how they communicate, and make sure you feel confident in their ability to represent you.

And please, don't choose someone just because their face is on a sign!

The right Realtor should make you feel supported, informed, and comfortable throughout the process.

Let's Find the Right Fit!

If you're thinking about buying or selling a home in Orange County, I'd love the opportunity to learn about your goals and see whether we're a good match.

As The Rescue Dog Realtor®, real estate and rescue dogs are two of my biggest passions. With every successful home sale, I give back to the rescue organizations working tirelessly to give dogs a second chance.

So, whether you're ready to make a move or just beginning to explore your options, let's have a conversation.

And remember, be picky about your Realtor. You deserve a good one!

A NOTE FROM RENEE

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WRITTEN BY

Renee Porsia

Real estate guidance for people and pups across Southern California. CA License #02089383.